Drama Tots is taking part in Children’s Activities Week, 30th April – 4th May 2018

Children’s Activities Week is an all new initiative bringing together thousands of activities, clubs and classes for children. This year it runs from the 30th April-4th May and Drama Tots Basingstoke is taking part!

Drama Tots is a preschool drama programme that incorporates many of the EYFS themes and uses music, movement and imaginary play to make them come to life. Perfect for developing communication skills, confidence and harnessing the creativity of imagination.

As part of the week our classes will be open to all (please email to confirm) and the normal class fee of £6 will be donated to the Caudwell Children’s charity, supporting disabled children and their families across the U.K.

The theme of the event is #WatchMeFly and our class will be covering lots of flying related things. The perfect opportunity for your little one (and you if you like) to dress up in a flying related costume, fairy, butterfly, superhero or maybe a pilot?

At 10.15am on Monday the 30th April we will also be taking part in a world record attempt with Sid from CBeebies, he has choreographed a dance for us all to learn and do together, hopefully at the same time as thousands of others around the country.

There will also be an opportunity to enter into a prize draw to win a family holiday to Alton Towers.

If you would like to join us at one of the classes, here are the details;

Monday St Mary’s church room Old Basing:
9.40am-10.20 18mnth-3yr old’s (we may run over with the record attempt)

10.30-11.15 3yrs-school age (world record attempt at 10.15 so come around 10.05)

Thursday at Old Basing cricket pavilion tea rooms (this class is normally at Lychpit village hall but has a different location because of the elections)
9.40 for 18mnth-3yr (very limited space so please get in touch)

10.30-11.15 3yrs-school age

⭐Please do drop me an email beforehand as numbers are limited!

www.dramatots.co.uk

I look forward to seeing you there!

Many thanks, Kate

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Charity Pamper Evening at The Holiday Inn

We are have a fundraising event at the Holiday Inn on the 16th May 2018

It would be a great evening out for anyone who would like a to have a little bit of pampering and enjoy an evening out.

Tickets are now on sale and can also be reserved for the evening. If you need more information please contact me.

Kind regards

Kathy Williams

Community Events Organiser for The Pink Place

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Netball Tournament to help Ark Cancer Charity

Debbie McLatch and her daughter Dani Taylor have kindly organised a Mixed Sex Versatility Netball Tournament to raise funds for Ark.

Taking place on Saturday, April 28 at Russell Howard Park in Basingstoke, this fun event is for men and women players over 16.

It would be great if you could please post the info on the NorthHantsMum page and spread the word to anyone else who may be interested.

To register to take part, please contact Dani at Danielle.Taylor@parissmith.co.uk.

Thanks to everyone who signs up.

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My Experience: Being Authentic

One of my objectives for NorthHantsMum is to share some of my experience of being a Mum.

The past three years of Motherhood have been really tough for me.

I haven’t talked about it on NorthHantsMum because it’s been a very, very difficult turn of events that we’ve dealt with privately as a family. Not knowing what was “wrong” with Miss NHM for nearly 3 years was indescribably draining and stressful.

However, I’ve realised I can’t be authentic on NorthHantsMum without talking about my experience of Miss NHM’s Coeliac Disease.

We’ve had many discussions as a family about whether it’s the right or wrong thing to share this with NHM Readers as it’s a very private thing.

I’ve talked to Miss NHM (6 years old) about it and she was very wise and told me that it’s ok to tell other people about it because it might help them too. That, right there, is one of the reasons why my daughter is so awesome.

Coeliac Disease

Miss NHM was diagnosed with Coeliac Disease in May 2017.

Coeliac Org say this about Coeliac Disease:

” Coeliac disease is a well defined, serious illness where the body’s immune system attacks itself when gluten is eaten. This causes damage to the lining of the gut and means that the body cannot properly absorb nutrients from food. Coeliac disease is not a food allergy or intolerance, it is an autoimmune disease.” (Coeliac.org).

1 in 100 people have been diagnosed with Coeliac Disease but the belief is that it is actually 1 in 25 people who have it.

There are over 200 possible symptoms of Coeliac Disease and it takes the average sufferer 13 years to be diagnosed. Medical advances are moving forward so quickly that it’s easier to be diagnosed these days, but Miss NHM is still incredibly lucky that we established what the issue was in just 2.5 years, particularly as there is no history of Coeliac Disease in either of our families, that we know of. (Coeliac disease does run in families but not in a predictable way)

The journey

I’ve alluded to it on the blog before but the 2.5 years leading up to her diagnosis were harrowing. I’ve written a post which explains the impact that Coeliac Disease has had on our lives but I’m no where near ready to publish it. It’s still too raw.

When your child is sick and you don’t know why and it takes years to find out why…yeah, it’s been really tough.

I was a bit naive about coeliac disease. I’d heard of it and knew people with it but I thought it was just a case of someone avoiding gluten in their diet and then everything would be fine.

It isn’t.

It’s far more serious than that.

We have to monitor EVERYTHING that Miss NHM eats, to ensure that it doesn’t contain gluten. She has regular blood tests and we have to monitor her energy levels very carefully as gluten free (GF) carbs don’t have the same energy density as “normal” carbs.

However, I am so, so, SO very grateful that Miss NHM was diagnosed so early in her life.

The impact of Coeliac Disease

Coeliac Disease has had a huge impact on my role as a Mum.

Every time we do something or go somewhere I am continuously thinking ahead. Do we have enough food? Will there be any alternatives that she can eat if we don’t have enough? Can we take our own food? Do they have any understanding of Coeliac Disease? Will someone offer her something and I will have to leap in and whip it away from her before she eats it? Do we have a subsitute to hand? Have they even heard of cross contamination?

There are the things that you would expect to look out for, like anything containing wheat, e.g. bread and pasta.

But it’s the things that you wouldn’t expect like barley squash, chocolate, chips, marshmallows, soy sauce, most ketchups, some fromage frais, and even playdough which is made with gluten. There are many, many, many more products which contain gluten which we have had to remove from Miss NHM’s diet.

On the rare occasion that we eat out or at someone else’s house, I’m checking to see whether they understand about cross contamination which is really important for people with coeliac disease. For example, you cannot put a knife in butter that has been used on “normal” bread, because even one crumb can cause Miss NHM weeks of pain and discomfort which affects her wellbeing, her health and her education.

I feel like I spend a lot of my time educating our friends and family, who have in the most part been amazingly supportive, about what cross contamination is and what Miss NHM can and can’t eat.

Using the coeliac.org phone app is second nature now. It’s fantastic!! There are over 100,000 food items listed and you can search by product name or bar code. This little app has been a life saver on many occasions.

Attending events and going anywhere new is now a BIG thing. Birthday parties are a nightmare, with birthday cake and sandwiches. We have been incredibly lucky that parents who we don’t know who have hosted birthday parties, have gone out of their way to ensure that Miss NHM doesn’t get singled out and isn’t treated any differently. We are very, very thankful for that. I try to make it as easy for other parents and friends by offering to provide food as it’s already a part of our reality.

Holidays abroad just aren’t an option at the moment although Coeliac.org has lots and lots of awesome advice for this.

I frequently get invited to review restaurants on NHM but we have to be so careful these days that I just ask one of the NHM Writers to go instead as it’s not worth the drama of having that discussion about the food not just being gluten free but also being free from cross contamination.

It’s such a HUGE part of our lives that I can’t write about being a Mum without talking about it.

Coeliac Disease and NorthHantsMum

As a result of the experiences that we have had with the NHS (unfortunately pretty dreadful in this instance) and The Prison for two years, most of my energy has been spent dealing with all of this and more. I’ve been fairly quiet on the blog over the past few years because of this.

However, now that Miss NHM has been on a Gluten Free (GF) diet for nearly a year and we’ve moved her to a far more sympathetic and understanding school, and as my energy is returning because I’m no longer battling with the institutions in Miss NHM’s life, I’m finding the urge to write more about our lives and more about my experience of being a Mum.

I don’t want NorthHantsMum to turn into a blog which is all about our experience of Coeliac Disease. I don’t want to bang on and on about it (well, I will try not too!) but I do feel that one of the reasons that we’ve been through this experience is so that I can share what we have learnt and also use this as an opportunity to educate people a bit more about what Coeliac Disease is, what it’s like being the parent of a child with an autoimmune disease and how it impacts our lives.

I never, ever, EVER wanted to be that Mum who has to make a big deal about what their child eats ALL the chuffing time.

I never wanted to be the Mum who has to check every…single…item that passes my child’s lips.

But I am and I’m dealing with it.

We’ve been incredibly lucky so far with the support that we have received from our wonderful friends and family and I hope this post goes a little way to explain what it’s like being the Mum of a child with a serious autoimmune disease.

Coeliac.org

If you would like to help Miss NHM with managing her disease, one of the best ways you can do this is to help raise funds for Coeliac.org. They have been invaluable for us.

For example, last month Miss NHM presented to the whole of Y1 and Y2 about Coeliac Disease as part of “Inclusion week” and we used one of the “Young Champions” packs from Coeliac.org to help with this. I won’t dwell on the fact that she told the Y1’s that she got Coeliac Disease from when a tarantula bit her as a baby (facepalm!) but I’m so proud of her for doing this because less than 6 months before she wouldn’t have physically been able too.

One of the ways you can help to fundraise is to join Coeliac’org’s weekly lottery where you can win up to £10,000 every week. It costs just £1 a week to enter, or £2 to double your chances of winning.

https://www.coeliac.org.uk/get-involved/support-us/weekly-lottery/

The money raised will not just help Miss NHM but anyone impacted by Coeliac Disease.

As always, thank you for your support and thank you for reading NorthHantsMum!

Louisex

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Please help if you can: Volunteers needed to support NCT Charity in their Nearly New Sale Events

WHERE – Queen Mary’s College. Basingstoke
WHEN – Sat 28th Apr & Sat 6th Oct 2018

We are currently looking for people to take on various volunteering roles for the Basingstoke NCT Nearly New Sales. Volunteering with the NCT charity means you get a general feeling of satisfaction that you are helping people in the community; you can show transferable skills on your CV while on Maternity Leave or a stay at home Mum.

What do the roles require from a volunteer ?

Main team volunteer roles are asked to attend a pre sale meeting and then volunteer for a few hours either split between the Friday evening preparation tasks or on the Saturday. Which is split into pre sale, sale and post sale.
You can also do half your time on the Friday and half on the Saturday.

Examples of roles are – on payment tills, guiding customers, checking quality, packing bags, answering queries….

Main team volunteer benefits include –
– Early entry into the sale (when volunteering 6 hours +)
– 50% of sellers fees refunded (when volunteering 3 hours +)

We also need to fill 3 roles as part of the nearly new sale core team.
Logistics Coordinator, Volunteer Coordinator and Seller Coordinator.
The core team have the extra benefits of –
– Extra early entry into the sale (before the pre-sale)
– 100% of the sellers fee refunded

The Logistics Coordinator is responsible for:
– Booking the Venue for Spring and Autumn Sales;
– Coordinator payment of invoices;
– Prepare risk assessment and insurance details for sales to take place;
– Liaise with local NCT branches for loan of equipment, such as rails;
– Arrange collection of equipment such as rails, shopping bags, aprons, and sashes;
– Liaise with Treasurer to ensure chip and pin machines and floats are ordered prior to sale;
– Attend Core Team Meetings to help with other areas of the sale, pre and post sale.

The Volunteer Coordinator is responsible for:
– Setting up the volunteer section of the Intrabiz registration page;
– Sending emails to previous volunteers and sellers about volunteering options for the next sale;
– Allocating volunteers to roles for the set up, sale and clear up to make sure we have enough people to perform the tasks required;
– Sign in and out all volunteers on the day of the sale and give volunteer briefing.

The Seller Coordinator is responsible for:
– Setting up the sale section of the Intrabiz registration page;
– Sending emails to previous volunteers and sellers about selling for the next sale;
– Having excellent excel experience to create seller spreadsheets, and keep the master spreadsheet up to date. This allows the sale to happen with a barcode scanning system and seller database;
– Email all sellers their seller spreadsheets and make sure they have been submitted for database entry before the sale;
– Greet all sellers and sign them in on the Friday evening;
– Making sure clear up on Saturday is completed correctly before sellers come to receive their unsold items.


The sale is completely run by volunteers and we can only continue running these sales if we have volunteers to look after the preparation and running of them. If you would be interested in finding out more about any of these roles please contact us by emailing  NNS.Basingstoke@nct.org.uk
Or visit our Facebook page and ask us a question 
https://www.facebook.com/BasingstokeNCTNNS/

Or, if you are happy to volunteer with the above information for the April sale, please follow this link to register: https://nct.intrabiz.co.uk/cgi-bin/sys.cgi?action=NCT-product-client_view&id=35109639

If you would be interested in selling at our next sale, we offer a return of either half or full of your seller fees if you volunteer with us. If you would like to register to sell, please follow this link: https://nct.intrabiz.co.uk/cgi-bin/sys.cgi?action=NCT-product-client_view&id=34288243

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Spotlight Christmas Toy Appeal

Please donate toys for 8-11 year old’s to bring a little happiness to local children!

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The Basingstoke NCT nearly new sale takes place in a little over a week !!!!

The Basingstoke NCT nearly new sale takes place in a little over a week !!!!

*** Saturday 14th October ~ At QMC ***

Please let us know you are coming to the event by clicking “going” on the attached event link –
https://www.facebook.com/events/1847160782211577/?ti=cl

Why come to the NCT sale / how Is it different from other sales ??
☆ Ours is a sorted sale, therefore it is easy to find the items you want
☆ You are supporting the NCT charity
☆ NCT Sale volunteers check the quality of the sellers items
☆ You pick all your items then pay once at the central tills. Card or cash

What are our top tips for having a great sale day ??
– Make a list to ensure you get your essentials
– Use up any old £1 coins from your piggy bank, you can’t use them in shops after 15rh Oct
– Bring a big bag (or 5 ! ) Ikea bags are ideal
– Come early. The 1st 150 shoppers get a goody bag
– To keep the sale safe we do not allow buggies/prams in the selling halls. Please bring babies in a sling/carrier
– If you are not sure what to expect, read our reviews from past shoppers on our Facebook page. So far we have top marks, all 5 star ratings !!!

The main NCT nearly new sale page can be found by following the attached link-
https://www.facebook.com/BasingstokeNCTNNS/

You can also follow us on Twitter
@NCTBasingstoke

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Molly’s market: FREE ENTRY – Saturday 7th October 2017

A frequent conversation of mums with small children revolves about what can we do instead of going back to work to earn some money around our children, and one day during such a conversation our NCT group realised that we actually know quite a few people who have set up their own businesses since having children, and that we should support them as much as possible – and so the idea for Molly’s Market was born.

All the stalls are run by mums who have set up businesses, either things they make themselves or “shop” businesses like Usborne books, so there will be a wide range of goods for sale from handmade clothes, cosmetics and toiletries, children’s books, jewellery, crafts, greetings cards and gifts, to delicious homemade cakes – “byMum’sforeveryone“.

Entry to the market is free, with any profits going to Sebastian’s Action Trust – a charity which provides support for families of seriously-ill children. They have the UK’s only purpose-built facility that offers respite holidays to very sick children and their families, near North Waltham, which enables precious time to be spent together, a cause both local and close to our hearts as we all have small children.

Refreshments will be available and a raffle of items from the stalls, both in aid of Sebastian’s Action Trust.  Zingtastic will be providing a taster of their music classes to entertain any little ones, and KMS are providing taster massages for grown ups. And to top it off, a swap shop where you can pick up some children’s clothes for free, and donate your unwanted clothes!

Please come along to support some local businesses, raise money for a great charity and get a head start on your Christmas shopping!

 

Christ Church, Reading Road, Chineham, RG24 8LT

7th October 10am-12 midday

https://www.facebook.com/events/842596599232095/?ti=cl

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The NCT Nearly New Sale in Basingstoke is back next month !!

The NCT nearly new sale in Basingstoke is back next month !!

– 14th October at 11.15am
– Queens Mary’s College

Please find all details on our Facebook page :-
https://www.facebook.com/BasingstokeNCTNNS/
Also you can follow us on Twitter – @Nctbasingstoke

Twice a year the nearly new sale is one of our biggest fundraising events for the NCT charity.

Unfortunately we are running low on volunteers this year and could do with some more to ensure all essential roles are covered. Please find below our post which explains further. If you have any questions please message us on the page using the above link.

Volunteers required please !!

No need to queue and early access if you volunteer 6 hrs +

We still need a few more volunteers to ensure the smooth running of the NCT sale. Please spare a few hours if you can

Have fun ✔
Volunteer ✔
Enjoy benefits ✔
Support a charity ✔

— Volunteer for more than 3 hours = Half the sellers fee refunded back to you
— Volunteer for more than 6 hours = Half the sellers fee refunded back to you & early entry into the sale !!!

Please follow the link to register as a volunteer if you can help
Thank you !!
https://nct.intrabiz.co.uk/cgi-bin/sys.cgi?action=NCT-product-client_view&id=32786006

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The “Sitting with Jane” bench winner is…..!!!!!!!!!!!!!

1st Place

2nd Place

3rd Place

Congratulations to all of the winners!!!!

But I think ALL of the children are winners!!!!

EVERYONE will be invited to the “opening ceremony” whenever I get that organised, and the 1st prize winner will be the “face” of the campaign.

Thank you VERY much to everyone who entered the competition!!!!!!!!

We ARE keeping a “Sitting with Jane” bench in Basingstoke! WHOOOOOOHOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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