Tickets are now available for the launch party of the inaugural Secret Art Basingstoke on 19th July at 7pm at Desklodge in Belvedere House, Basingview – come join us!
Thanks to the kind people at Desklodge who have donated their space for the evening, we’ll be drinking bubbly and catching the first sneaky peak at the entire postcard collection before anyone else in this see-it-to-believe-it space; there’s a beach, a Zen room – there’s even a Narnia Wonderland hidden behind a wardrobe!
We’ve also got a few delicious extras (aside from the delicious canapes);
Special Guest Bertie Carvel
We’re very excited to have Bertie Carvel with us to kick off our charity auction! Bertie has twice won the Laurence Olivier Award: for his performances as Miss Trunchbull in Matilda the Musical and Rupert Murdoch in Ink. On television, he is known for playing Jonathan Strange in Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell and as Simon, the cheating husband, in Doctor Foster.
Art Demonstrations – Watch local artist Fatima Pantoja (from the ‘Sitting with Jane’ project) demonstrating her portraiture skills, and then sit for a quick portrait!
Live Music – Pianist Thomas Barfoot will keep us entertained all evening.
Boob cake – It wouldn’t be an NCT event without it! Cakes by Chris has created a boobilicious cake – each boob a different flavour!
Goodie bags – For thefirst 20 guests through the door.
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I recently received a message on facebook from Aideen, asking me if I would like to have my hair done in exchange for a review on NorthHantsMum.
I jumped at the chance! 😀
(There is a special offer for NHM Readers at the bottom of this post :-D)
HAIRaffair Basingstoke
Anyone who knows me, knows I’m not a “girly girl” but I do take an interest in how I look. I haven’t had my hair cut in a salon in over 10 years as I have always found hairdressers to be very intimidating places, especially as I’m not into fashion.
It turned out that at a recent fundraising raffle I had won a voucher to get my hair cut but hadn’t realised it that it was with Aideen. I actually gave the voucher to a friend who needed pampering more than me, so when Aideen got in contact it clicked that I’d given away my voucher!!!! lol.
I explained to Aideen that I wasn’t really a girly girl and she was absolutely lovely about it. I did know that I wanted my hair to be coloured but I didn’t want her to be anymore out of pocket, especially as she’d been so generous with her raffle donation.
I explained that I just wanted a trim and colour and we agreed that I would cover the cost of the colouring and she would cut my hair in exchange for this review.
About
Aideen decided on her career path when she was traveling around Australia for a year after studying at college and university. She’s always loved playing with hair but at the time she thought that she would end up in a different career. Then she saw that lots of fellow travellers cutting hair and making money flexibly and it confirmed her career decision.
Once back from Australia she worked and trained at Arc in Basingstoke town centre and then progressed to a salon in Odiham where she was assistant manager and senior stylist. Then a couple of years ago, after her son was born, she decided to convert a room in her house to her salon and she hasn’t looked back!
We had a chat when I arrived and Aideen chose the best colour for me based on what I’d told her.
Aideen then applied the foils to my hair whilst we continued chatting.
Once the foils came out, Aideen washing my hair in her fancy hair sink and gave me a lovely mini head massage.
Then Aideen cut my hair and layered it a bit. I didn’t realise how long my hair was as she cut off about 4 inches and it was still really long! lol.
We basically didn’t stop talking for the whole two hours!!! It was really lovely to chat to her and she’s a great listener.
She did a fantastic job with my hair and blow dried it straight as my hair normally has a bit of a kink about it.
I came out of Aideen’s salon literally bouncing. There is literally nothing like having 1.5 hours of being pampered and coming out with a fab new hair colour and hairstyle!
When I got home Mr NHM said “something’s different…” which is high praise in our household! lol.
Miss NHM kept telling me how beautiful I looked. She’s not used to me having my hair down.
I felt amazing for the rest of the weekend with my fab new hair!
Tips
Aideen normally works only on Saturdays but if you are desperate, she can fit you in at other times.
Facilities
Aideen’s studio is attached to her house but it’s fab because you literally have it ALL TO YOURSELF!!! She only has one to two people at a time so you have her full concentration.
Baby Facilities
Babies are very welcome at Aideen’s studio.
The perk of Aideen only having one client at a time means that you can take your baby along as there is room for a baby car seat.
If you let her know in advance that you are taking a baby with you, she said she will allow extra time in case you need to focus on your baby at any point. How fab is that!
Aideen is very understanding as she has two small children of her own.
Parking
Is free and on the drive and streets near Aideen’s house.
Prices
Prices are what you would expect for an independent hairstylist with her own studio.
For example, a cut, style and finish is £35.
Rating out of 5
Aideen did SUCH an AWESOME job! I absolutely love it!!! My hair looked amazing.
I will easily give her 5 out of 5 because she made me feel so welcome and really looked after me.
I love the colour and the cut was a really good cut. It was such a luxury to have my hair washed AND dried.
If you need a new haircut and are looking for some pampering at the same time, I highly recommend visiting Aideen’s salon!
Aideen is also very kindly offering NHM Readers a first time discount £5 off cut and £15 off colour and cut booked together.
Thank you Aideen!!!!!!
Disclaimer: This post is a review of HairAffair Hairdressing. My experience was supplied free of charge for the purposes of the review. I was not expected to write a positive review and any opinions expressed are my own.
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I recently asked the Friends of my “Louise nhm Smith” profile on Facebook where can you do pottery painting with children in the local area. (Thank you very much to everyone who responded and to Shona for putting this post together!!)
This is what they came back with, in no particular order!
NHM Readers Recommend Pottery Painting Venues to take children
Unit 3, The Old Stables, Oakhanger Farm Business Park, Oakhanger, GU35 9JA
Open Monday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday 10am – 5pm and Sunday’s 11am – 4pm.
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I’m not sure when I found out that Winchester Planetarium does Adult Only shows (not as dodgy as it sounds :-D) but I’ve been itching for Mr NHM and I to go on one for Date Night for at least a year.
In July 2015 we finally got to go for our regular Date Night and it was AWESOME!!!!!
I wasn’t quite sure what to expect but it was a REALLY interesting experience.
Mr NHM and I held hands all the way through but I also learnt LOADS of things about the universe that I really should know!
When we went the show started at 7pm. We rocked up and waited in the lobby with everyone else.
There were refreshments in the lobby if you weren’t organised enough to take them with you, which I thought was a great idea.
You could go into the planetarium 15 minutes before the show so we went in and got some great seats, in the middle of the planetarium.
I hadn’t realised that it’s actually a “live” show, so someone talks you through everything you are seeing. We were shown which stars to look out for in the night sky for this time of year, which was really cool.
We then, literally, had a tour of the universe. Breathtaking and mindblowing are the two words that come to mind.
It was absolutely fascinating and made me realise just how small and insignificant we are. I also came to realise how much we still don’t know about our universe and how the experts are discovering new things about the universe EVERY DAY!
When we went in July 2015 we were four days away from the New Horizonsinterplanetary space probe achieving it’s mission of taking pictures of Pluto. It is the first spacecraft to explore the dwarf planet. Yup, this thing has been on it’s mission to Pluto for NINE YEARS and this was the first time we would get clear pictures of Pluto. I was gobsmacked at this.
At the end of the show you can ask questions and I asked a question about how is it possible in all of those kids planet sets you can buy, that Pluto is a certain colour, (yes, sometimes I’m not the brightest, but I thought it was a great question!) if we have never actually taken a picture of it and we don’t actually know, why is it always depicted as it is?
I was told that it was based on all of the information that we knew about Pluto including it’s gases, etc. But these were the first ever close up pictures of Pluto and we got to see them in the Planetarium when they were only a few hours old!?!??!?!!? This totally blew my mind.
I enjoyed this far more than the cinema because we talked about it ALL the way home.
It was a great bonding experience for Mr NHM and I and we are really looking forward to going again.
So, if you are looking for something a little bit different to do on Date Night, this comes HIGHLY recommended 😀.
Oh and they also do a regular Singles Night which includes curry!??!?! What a cool way to meet your future partner 😀.
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Stephanie added a great comment to my recent Monday Night Date Nights post, asking if I had any suggestions about babysitting options.
I’ve had a draft post about babysitting for over 2.5 years! I just had no idea where to start. So I thought I better get on and get this post published!
I put out a plea on NHM on FB asking for suggestions. There are a LOT of people who are looking for babysitters or who would like to be in a babysitting circle.
So, in an attempt to help people, I’ve created a FB Group for Babysitting in Basingstoke:
This is for parents and for qualified babysitters to make contact.
It is also a place where people can put up their comments about wanting to be in a babysitting circle.
I have no idea if this will work but at least it’s a start.
Please add anyone else to the group who you think would be interested. There is such a demand for babysitting in the area, that I can’t believe someone hasn’t jumped on this business opportunity already!!
For those who are interested in creating a babysitting circle, why not organise a family catch up so that groups of families meet so you know whether you feel comfortable leaving your child with other people.
Good luck!!!
Disclaimer: I would also like to add a disclaimer that I take no responsibility at all for via this Babysitting FB Group. I’m just putting people in touch with other people. It’s your responsibility to vet people, etc.
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In the run up to Christmas you might not have time to have Date Nights, but you may be able to squeeze in a “Date Afternoon”. We are planning to have one in between Christmas and New Year, when Miss NHM is in nursery.
I feel dreadfully guilty about it, but she loves nursery and Mr NHM and I get to spend some quality time together remembering what it’s like to just be the two of us!
I posted up about Date Night Ideas a few months ago and you can read my suggestions HERE. In the same manner, Date “Afternoons” are also a big deal in our house.
On our Wedding Anniversary we both took half a day off from work, left our little one in nursery, and went to lunch and then an afternoon cinema showing. It’s cheaper all round, much emptier and you often have the cinema to yourself (assuming it’s not school holidays! lol).
Mr NHM recently sorted us out a Gourmet Society card. I think it cost us £20 a year, but we made the money back within the first couple of times of using it.
We often go out for lunch as Mr NHM works strange shift hours. Sometimes, the only time we can sit down together in a week is over lunch. Some of our favourites:
Spruce Goose (love the value of the daytime menu)
The Portsmouth Arms
Nando’s (his choice)
Wagamama’s (my choice)
As already mentioned we also go to the cinema on the odd occasion during the day and we plan to go bowling one day as it’s also cheaper during the day.
Although this isn’t so appropriate for the weather at the moment, we love a good picnic. One of the best “Date’s” we ever went on was a picnic in February. There was snow on the ground but we had an awesome afternoon.
Do you have any suggestions for other Afternoon Dates?
We started going on Date Nights about a year ago. My little one was old enough to be babysat by a grandparent or trusted babysitter, so we thought we ought to make some specific time to spend together. Otherwise, the evenings just tended to roll into one another.
Date Nights have become even more important now my husband works shifts, as our evenings together are even more limited.
Date Night/Afternoon is a big thing in our house. I really look forward to Date Nights. It’s fun to plan what we are going to do and how we are going to spend this precious time together, out of the house, just the two of us, not as parents or as employee’s, but as a couple.
I’m putting together a list of Date Afternoon ideas too, so look out for that over the next few weeks.
If you always go out to dinner together – this list is a little bit more than that…
Yes, this is pitched at people half my age and younger, but we went recently and had such a giggle.
Be warned that Planet Ice have changed the hire skates ice hockey skates, so I’m not as good as I used to be! Plus, after half an hour, we were toast! lol.
We did have a lot of fun though.
Go to a dancing session
There are lots and lots of dance classes for adults. These are just a selection of some I’ve found or been too over the years:
I’m itching to go to one of these events. We have some friends who go nearly every weekend to the Roller Disco. I remember fondly, the Roller Disco that used to be at the Sports Centre in town. Again, I realise I’m showing my age! lol :-D.
Go to the Planetarium
Intech Science Centre in Winchester hosts “Adults only” evenings.
What could be more romantic than watching the stars together :-D.
Go Sky Diving
I couldn’t really not mention the new Sky Diving facilities in the Leisure Park. This looks AWESOME and I’m hoping that I’m not too much of a woos to try it out! lol.
I hope some of these suggestions give you some inspiration. If you have any other ideas, please let me know as I’m always looking for something a bit different to do on our nights out together. Thanks!