You may have seen earlier in the week that I was raving about Remember the Milk. It’s a To Do List tool that’s very easy to use but is helping to revolutionise my life! Hence all of the posts you’ve seen lately, lol.
As a result of organising my time more effectively, I’ve set NorthHantsMum up on Google+ and on LinkedIn. I’ve been using LinkedIn for a long time but I haven’t used Google+ before so am a complete newbie, so if I make any social gaffs, I apologise in advance!
If you’d like to connect to NHM via these channels you can find them here:
See you there! 😀
I just wanted to say a MASSIVE thank you to those of you who have completed the NHM Survey. Thank you very much for your feedback and also for the very lovely comments! This wasn’t just an ego stroking exercise for me (honest!). I wanted to get your feedback on a number of things and I’ve been really pleased with the suggestions and feedback that you have provided. Thank you!
Based on your feedback, I will be making a few small changes to the site over the next few months and I am now seriously considering putting together an event for NHM Readers. More to come on that soon!
For those of you who would still like to complete the survey (it literally takes 2 minutes to complete) you can access it HERE. Thank you in advance!
I hope you all had a great weekend. I know this isn’t really a relevant topic but I felt the issue deserved a post of it’s own, especially given NHM’s 1st birthday last week.
I spend an awful lot of time putting posts together for NHM and trying to publicise them to the local parent community. Several other people also spend a lot of time putting posts together via Guest Post Wednesday and as Guest Bloggers. I like to think that we all add a little bit of value in our efforts to make your life a little bit easier. As you know, I don’t make any money from what I do at NHM, I run the blog as a hobby and it’s my opportunity to give a little bit back.
Many readers of NHM access the posts through the NHM Facebook Page. Facebook has now changed the terms and conditions for FB Pages. They now expect all Page owners to PAY to publicise their posts and status updates to people who have “Liked” their page. I am very disappointed in Facebook, but not surprised.
If you access the NHM posts via the FB Page, I urge you to hover over the “Like” button on the page and make sure there is a tick next to “Show in newsfeed”. If you don’t do this (and because I will not pay to publicise my posts) NHM status updates will only show up in the newsfeed of 10% of total number of “Likers”.
If there are any other Pages that you want to keep being informed of, it’s probably best to do the same on each of these.
If you are a NHM FB Page “Liker” I would be very grateful if you could go in and check whether NHM “shows in your news feed”. Thank you very much.
However, If you don’t have the time or energy to do this and you would like to still see the NHM posts, the best way to see the posts is to subscribe in the email address in the wordpress site HERE.
Thank you very much for your time and all of your support. Normal service will resume tomorrow. Hope you have a great weekend!
A WHOLE YEAR!!!! NorthHantsMum has been running for a whole year! YAY! A couple of points to note at this momentous and poignant moment… (well it’s a momentous and poignant moment for me even though it isn’t for anyone else! lol)
Thoughts (in no particular order)
How can it possibly be a whole year since I started NHM? How?
I have learnt so much in the last 12 months some of which are:
- how to be a better parent
- how to set up a successful blog
- how to type single handedly
- how wonderful it is to introduce other people to each other
- and many, many other things.
I never, ever expected NHM to be as successful as it has. I couldn’t have done it without all of the support and encouragement from you all. Thank you.
Extra specially BIG thanks go out to my husband and daughter. Without them I never would have had the inspiration for NHM or started the blog. They are my world.
(Yes, I appreciate this is starting to sound like an Oscar speech but I will stop in a minute! lol)
Special thanks to all of my friends who have supported NHM, written posts and given feedback (whether they wanted to or not!): Sophie, Abigail, Claire, Jo, Su, Kate, Laura, Mel, Hilary, Martina and everyone else who has supported and encouraged me.
- Over 800 readers and still more every day.
- 262 posts published
- Three different interfaces that people connect to NHM via:
- 22 “Lists” set up on Facebook (under the NHM Friend), ranging from “Toddler Classes in Basingstoke” to “Local Mum Businesses”.
- 9 Guest Post’s and several more lined up. (Thanks to all of the business people for your continued support!)
So, here’s hoping to at least another year of NHM! Hopefully you will still stick around for whatever comes next!
(I am now going to go and sob quietly in a corner and drink a very small bottle of champagne to celebrate!! YAY! Normal service will resume on Monday.)
Happy Weekend to all you wonderful NHM Readers and thank you again for reading and contributing!
There have been a few products that I have fallen in love with since having my little one. I thought it might be useful to share these with you, as you might find them useful too!
One Line a Day Diary
I was recently talking to one of my Mum friends who works full time (total respect to all Mummy’s, but a little extra for those who work full time). When she was on maternity leave she had planned to keep a diary of her little one’s development and progress. She bought a lovely leather bound book and had the best will in the world but when she went back to work she just didn’t have the time to sit and write.
The One Line a Day Diary is the perfect way to keep on top of a daily diary. You have just five lines to update daily. Perfect for the busy Mum (and which Mum isn’t busy!?!?!) who wants to try to keep a record of those special moments. It’s not too expensive either, at £7.50 from Amazon. Could also be a great present for a new Mum who wants to keep track of everything that happens in those first manic months.
Oxo Tot Whale Pail
I LOVE this bath toy holder from Oxo Tots. It’s quite pricey but I managed to get it for cheaper than this when Amazon were doing a deal. It’s great as you just use it to scoop up all the bath toys out of the water, which then drains out of the bottom of the scoop. Brilliantly innovative and much sturdier than the string bath toy bags that seem to be the only alternative.
I’m sure every other Mum knows about these but I only discovered them by accident when I went to visit a “seasoned” Mum. My little one loved them immediately. She’s always been obsessed with labels (material not designer!) since she was very tiny so the Taggie’s have kept her amused for hours on many an occasion. They are quite expensive for what they are but you can buy something very similar for a far more reasonable price from a lovely little local company, Butterflies and Cupcakes who advertise on Facebook. I’m hoping to get some in for future “newborn” presents.
You could argue that this isn’t a product as it’s free but I wanted to recommend this computer tool as I am completely addicted. I use it for recording recipes, travel plans, product warranties, storing business card details, blog inspiration, networking and a multitude of other ways. It’s very easy to use, free to download and if you love organising like I do (you may have picked up on this from the blog :-D), then it’s the perfect tool. You can create multiple notebooks, I have one for each year, for my work, for travel and for NHM among others. You can also sync Evernote with all of your applications, including mobile phones. It has an excellent search function and has saved me on numerous occasions when I’ve had a “Mummy brain” moment. Can’t recommend this tool enough!
The National Academy for Gifted and Talented Youth
I stumbled across this link and had to share. If you feel your child is a genius, this is the link for you! Click HERE for details.
Are there any products that you love that you would like to share? Please add a comment below. Thanks!
I’m on holiday this week and I had the best intentions. I was going to spend two hours a day working on my blog, when my little one was asleep. I had great plans for updating Pages, putting posts together and getting the survey ready. Then the sun started shinning and it all went out the window.
This week I have been mostly outside enjoying the fabulous sunshine. Even in the evening I’ve been out in the garden, pottering around, rather than being tied to the computer. For the first time in a long while I don’t feel guilty about it. NHM is my hobby, I work on it for the pleasure of sharing information with you and feeling like I’m giving something back. Now that the sun is shining (and who knows how long that will last!) I’m going to enjoy it as much as I can. I hope you are able to too!
So, NHM will be a bit sporadic for the next couple of weeks. I have a few “Things to do Posts” with details of lots to do for the Easter break which I will post up, but other than that, things may be a bit quiet during Easter. It all depends on whether the sun stops shining!
I breastfed my little one for the first 8 months of her life. I’m not one of those Breastfeeding Nazi Mum’s (at least I hope I’m not!) but I wanted to try to do what I thought was the best for my baby. She wasn’t exclusively breastfed as we had several complications. The first 9 weeks of feeding were hellish. However, without the support of the the staff at North Hants Hospital and the Basingstoke Breastfeeding Counsellors we wouldn’t have managed more than a day.
I would have liked to have gone on beyond 8 months but I was forced to return to work when my little one was 5 1/2 months old. By the time she was 8 months old I was so exhausted from having to get up at 6am to express. Nobody mentioned to me that I didn’t need to stop breastfeeding completely, that I could have carried on doing the last feed of the day.
If you are hoping to breastfeed your baby I recommend checking some of the links below in advance of giving birth. I also recommend touching base with one of the breastfeeding counsellors in the last few weeks of your pregnancy, if only so you have a face you recognise if you need to see a counsellor. The counsellors at North Hants Hospital will only allow you to visit them up to your babies 28th day. I know this because I needed an appointment and they wouldn’t make one for me because my baby would have been 29 days old.
So I went to see Rachel at the Baby clinic at Chineham Christchurch. She is lovely and incredibly knowledgable. She picked up on feeding problems that many in the medical profession had missed. I had been to see Rachel in my first few weeks of maternity leave, before my baby was born and I was so glad I had met her before “needing” her support in those first few weeks. I also saw Sarah who was at the Nest, Basingstoke Baptist Church, Brighton Hill. She was so lovely when I collapsed in a heap of tears at about week four when things were just awful.
These ladies and their colleagues do an absolutely fantastic job. I cannot thank them enough for their support during one of the most intense periods of my life. If you are finding breastfeeding a struggle I urge you to reach out to these wonderful ladies.
Another recommendation I would make is that you find out in advance who can take you to the breastfeeding clinics if your partner cannot get time off work and/or you need support after the first two weeks. You never know if you will be able to drive after giving birth (emergency caesarean’s). The Health visitors are great but they cannot come and see you every day. I wish I’d had that list of people I could have called who were able, or prepared, to take me to the clinic when I needed them too. Even a list of taxi numbers would have been a start. Those first few weeks are challenging enough!
Remember though, if you cannot or choose not to breastfeed it DOESN’T make you a bad Mum. I lost sight of this at the beginning and I wish someone had said this to me at the time. Best of luck and if you need help, PLEASE reach out.
A Map of Breastfeeding support in Hampshire: http://www.breastfeedingcommunity.co.uk/interactivemap/south.htm
The Breast Feeding network – Basingstoke on Facebook is also a great resource and I wish I’d known of it beforehand.
The official Basingstoke Breastfeeding Network web page. Another great resource.
Several of the Children’s Centres in Basingstoke also provide breastfeeding support, e.g. Octopus and Pebbles. Click here for details on Children Centres in Basingstoke
Please also see the great comment from Fumblina below about the NCT breastfeeding support in Basingstoke. My bad for not including the NCT in the original post!
I’ve been a busy bee during the Christmas period and have sorted a few changes to the blog. Hope they aren’t too confusing!
I have set up a new NHM Facebook Page which will be where all future NorthHantsMum posts will be published.
- If you click HERE you will be taken to the new NorthHantsMum FB page.
- Click on the “LIKE” button.
- Any posts added will then show up in your newsfeed, like they do if you are a friend of NHM.
The NHM Friend will still be available but I will only share information on here. The blog posts ONLY be on the NHM Page from today.
I’m putting together a survey to understand what you lovely readers would like me to focus on. If you would like to complete the survey, please let me know via Facebook or NorthHantsMum@gmail.com. If I don’t get much response I may randomly pick readers so I apologise in advance for any inconvenience caused.
This is a plea for help…I’m finding it quite difficult to keep on top of what’s going on in and near Basingstoke. I know that lots of you have great knowledge of what’s going on in the area (that’s relevant for parents) and was wondering if you could let me know when you find something that might be useful for other Parents in the area? If you have any events that you would like to publicise then please also let me know.
My husband is very supportive of NorthHantsMum and as a surprise over Christmas he organised NHM business cards and keyrings for me. Look out for these very “coveted” items (when I manage to give them out to friends who can “distribute” them for me at appropriate places!). If you would like a keyring, let me know your details and I will post you one!
I’m hoping to start building closer relationships with local businesses and would like to really get this off the ground early this year. If you are a local business and would like some free advertising and increased interest in your business, please let me know. There are over 500 parents on NHM and the number is growing every day!
Finally, I would like to thank you all of you lovely readers (again!) for all of your support on NHM. I’m so delighted that my hobby is becoming so successful and that’s thanks to YOU!
Happy New Year! Hope you all had a fantastic Christmas and marvellous New Year.I thoroughly enjoyed my two weeks off. We had a lovely first Christmas with our little one and it was so nice to connect with family and friends and not do any work or blogging! I need to get back into the swing of things though so normal service should resume this week. I’m working on moving all posts from NHM Facebook Friend (that’s NorthHantsMum ;-)) to the NHM Facebook Page. There will be more about this hopefully this week…
So, to start 2012 on NHM this post is a summary of the most popular posts that featured in 2011. (Yes, I’m being very lazy and not doing a new original post, but I’m trying to ease back in gently! lol)
- Swimming with Babies
- Baby and Child friendly cafes in Basingstoke
- Luxury Afternoon tea
- Musical Shakers
- Book start
- Babies – treasure baskets
- Play Dough Recipes